The description that Dan gave here of “life”, if you can call it that, in Independent Professional Baseball is an excellent example of what a man can look forward to.
In fact, Affiliated ball (MLB) isn’t much better – just better accommodations and $$, depending on what level and system you’re in.
Also, pay particular attention to the mindset of Dan’s drive and determination. After all he’s been through, medical issues and all – he still pushes himself.
I’ve witnessed more men than I can count, go close to if not mirror Dan’s situation in Independent Professional Baseball. Their tough minded with grit that has no equal – they have to be. They have to cultivate this grit and determination because it’s what’s been groomed in them at a very early age. Some, perhaps as early as young as fourteen or earlier. This “stand firm” on purpose and direction is a reflex that’ll stay with a man for the rest of his life – in vary degrees for all concerned, but nevertheless a personality that never goes away.
Earlier I addressed concerns to Dan about his medical condition and other relative things like age, the potentials waiting for him with quality of life later on, etc. I itemized what I’ve seen over the years as a result of a course of action, that he’s about to take. Dan took that as insults, even after JD tried to widen the scope of my purpose and my intent. This reaction and interpretation on Dan’s part is natural and understandable. I’ve had men storm out of my presence like this before telling me “I’ll show you,” …” you know nothing about me,”… etc.
And their right, absolutely right. Hence, I apologized to Dan for having the concerns for his well-being based on others that I’ve witnessed going down the same road. I don’t know Dan, at all, personally or otherwise.
Take to heart anyone who dives in with both feet into pro ball, any pro ball. (Semi-pro leagues are a lot different in this regard.) You will soon develop the thick skin, single minded purpose of “ I must do this, regardless.” And you’ll need that single minded purpose to survive, just like Dan is about to do.
To Dan’s credit, he’s up front of his time and purpose. So many come out of pro ball, knowing their making their way back, set up shop with coaching and training youngsters only to leave them in a lurch when their gone. Even worse, some of these men use their pro experience and their “sales pitch of determination” to get back in pro ball like a marque at the movies – what’s playing now, with no real intention of getting back into pro ball. These guys are good at selling an idea, not a purpose.
Like I mention, Dan isn’t doing any of that. When he’s in pro ball he’ll make arrangements based on his honesty that’s up front.
Great response to my question and details of what to expect in Independent Baseball.
Coach B.